Lessons Learned

Last Tuesday was a very crazy day for me. I started my day by unloaded vehicles for the career fair in negative 11 degree weather at 8 am. Then I had four hours of class and working the career fair for three hours, talking to employers and running around assisting where ever needed. By the time class rolled around I was exhausted, but I feel that I did a good job holding myself together during Kelly and I’s lesson plan. All and all, I felt good about our lesson plan, but it was good practice for next year when I’ll be teaching my students weekly. I now know some major things to keep in mind while planning a lesson plan next year. Both good and bad, but some of the things that I need to work on would be, being more confident in front of my peers. I feel that I was swaying and stumbling on my words when I was teaching. That is something I tried to focus on during our lesson plan but this also comes with experience too. Along with that, we need to keep in mind the seven second rule. After asking the group a question, in general we should have waited about seven second to see if anyone had anything else to add. When we asked if anyone had anything to add and then said ok next thing so I felt that I needed to stop and slow down to make sure my students can learn the material and not just rush right through it.

I really liked Deb’s and Joey’s way of doing skits to demonstrating relationship with our mentees. I think that Kelly and I should have done an activity more interesting like this. Ours wasn’t really that interesting and we should have had more discussing activity to engage the minds of the other peer mentors. That is just another major lesson that I need to keep in mind for next year when I am teaching to my students. I thought that the volunteers did a really good job role playing and knowing what to do as a peer mentor. I personally not that great at think on my feet so I give props to the volunteers for creating another person and being able to know what to do when thrown in that situation. My favorite was Greg’s sexy female voice hitting on Joey at a party. I thought Joey did a really good job handling the situation by just saying no and removing himself from that party. This also provided a good example of sometime that could maybe happen. Since most of us will be of age next year and none of our students should be of age we shouldn’t EVER supply or be around them while they or we are drinking if we do so. We as mentors also should remember that we shouldn’t become romantically involved with any of the 100- 2011 Hixson Scholar, at least for the fall of 2011.

Looking into myself!

Last week I went to the ISLE Friday session of Biofeedback. Before I went, I thought it was going to be about how your brain and body work together. Once I got there, however, I realized that it was definitely not what I expected, but it was, in fact, very interesting. Biofeedback is a resource available to all Iowa State students that can be located in the Student Service building. Once you go through the orientation, you can go in at anytime that they are open without an appointment and lie back in a lazy boy chair and practice relaxation techniques. These techniques help you think more clearly in high pressure or stressful situations (i.e. Exams or being attacked by a bear). I plan on going to the student service building and going through the biofeedback orientation, because in high school football before every game we practiced relaxation techniques to get us focused on the game. I really enjoyed doing this and I felt that it helped me tremendously to focus on my assignment and what I had to do.

On Saturday, myself and the other peer mentors attended the ISLE event with David Coleman, “America’s real life hitch.” I’ll admit that like most of us, I was reluctant to get up on a Saturday to go. Once we were there, however, I really liked it because he was funny and taught me some things about myself that I didn’t know. David touched on many subjects, including “what being a true friend really means” and “our weakest link list”. One of the main things about being a true friend is not keeping score (i.e. Buying a pizza and saying “you buy the next one”). I have always thought of myself as a good person, but in the “weakest link list” I sat down early and bounced a lot, which meant I had a lot of character flaws. Some of the main ones that hit home with me consisted of:

Road Rage

Swearing in public

Littering deliberately

Taking change when casher gives too much

Talking behind people’s back

Kelly and I are teaching chapter 3; “Our Roles.” I never really realized how different teaching is than from being a student. We as students tend to be extremely critical of our teachers, especially in hard classes. This chapter has opened up my eyes about the challenges of being a teacher, and this experience has helped me tremendously in preparing for next year as I take on my role as a peer mentor. With this experience, I will do my best to be an effective and fun mentor next year while guiding my students through their first semester of college.

Self Controversy

We all have done many MBTI’s before, I personally took 3 the first semester last year alone. I thought they were very helpful for starting out college but I was confused with some of the certain letters. Mainly I was confused with the extraversion and introversion, which deals with where you get your energy from. My confusion was that I feel like I am a very energetic person that likes to meet new people but sometimes I just sit back more like an “I”. With this test it broke it down each type into 5 sub categories, which explained my “E” and “I” controversy. It said I was receiving and contained, and those are both on the “I” side but it says I am an "E". Receiving and contained says that I am more reserved, like to get introduced and harder to get to know, which is very true for me because once introduced and know the person more, I am very open. My other type that was interesting to me was my “J” and “P”, I am a “P” but a low “P” and then the early starting sub category was very high, which is in the “J”. I like to start things early and plan but I don’t usually totally fallow that plan and I like to be spontaneous and do random things.

The MBTI taught me a lot about myself and I believe it will help me to not only become a good mentor but will help me to improve myself as a person and help out with school and my career. This MBTI helped me to get to know the other peer mentors and see who is like me and who might complement me as a partner like Allie and Silas complement each other.

Student's in Transition: The ABC's

While making the transition from high school to college, I think the hardest part is the difference in classes. High school students have to go to class for eight hours straight, but in college classes aren’t always back to back and not eight hours in one day. So it takes quite a bit of adjusting to get use to only having class one and a while and having a lot of free time. This is just one of the hardest things I went through last year, and this chapter talks about this and many other problems of transferring to college from high school. As mentors, we need to aid student in transferring from high school to college. One way the book talks about this is the ABC’s of mentoring students in transition; Acknowledge the student’s reality, Be strategic and student-focused, and Commit students to do it. What I got from this section was, that you don’t know if the student is struggling with the transition, we as mentors need to ask questions and get to know students so they are comfortable talking to you. Once a student opens up to you, as mentor you should know how to respond to help them with their problem. After figuring out what they should do, help them commit to it and check back with them.

Odysseus's Trusted Counselor

What is a Mentor? This may seem like a simple question that you know the answer to, at least I thought I did until I begun to read Peer Mentor Companion. I have had many mentors through my life confirmation mentor, high school mentor, Hixson peer mentor, learning community peer mentor, and many more that you may never think as a mentor. As the mentee of these many mentors, I thought them to be someone just lending a helping hand but as I read through Peer Mentor Companion I realized that they are more of life changers who are guiding you through a certain part of your life. Among realizing this, I realized that I am not as prepared to be a good mentor as I once thought I had been. This being said I become more eager to go to class and learn my strengths and weaknesses so I know what I can work on to become that outstanding mentor I thrive to be.

While sitting in class this past Tuesday, going over the syllabus for the class and finding out what events are to come. I know that I have been given the tools to form myself into that outstanding mentor and it is now up to me to construction myself into a lean mean mentoring machine. With the aid of the Mentoring Confidence Inventory, I know some of the major things that I need to become more confident on before starting my mentoring. As I work on these things I know that I will have to support of my fellow mentors that I look forward to getting to know and working with, in the digital storytelling project.

Mentor I'd choose

Right now I feel like I don’t have any good people to ask for a recommendation from except for the one from my high school. Although from there are some very good recommendations, but as goes for college may not be the best choice. I do have the formation of some recommendation people in the making but so far I would need to work on that more before asking that of them.
If I had to choose someone from college standing I would maybe talk with my math tutor or math professor. My math tutor isn’t quite out of college but knows me on the personal bases and that would make a good person of recommendation. My math professor on the other hand is out of college which would make them a good candidate but doesn’t know me on the personal bases as well.
I feel that is good to have someone of higher power, like a professor, and someone who knows you personally and professionally. These are good to have in a person of recommendation to ensure the best recommendation. It’s like they say it’s not what you know it’s who you know.

Associated General Contractors of America

Associated General Contractors of America or know to the students of Iowa State as AGC. AGC does many Volunteer Projects through-out the community that deals with construction, like concrete and gravel pours for assisted living homes, building boat ramps, or just doing some landscaping. AGC also bring the ConE students at Iowa State together so they can get to know each other extremely well. They have varies cookouts, camping trip, and much more. AGC helps student get acquainted with the Construction field, how it works, what they do, and anything else that will help a student future professional career.

I join AGC for both of the personal reasons and professional reasons. I like the personal part of AGC because I can make lots of new friends who share the same interest/ major. Bond with friends already made that are also a part of AGC. Professionally, it looks good on a resume, plus it is really good experience to learn about the construction field. There is also the feel of doing good when volunteering at an assisted living home.

As a freshman, I can only get extremely involved in varies volunteering activities, social activities, and meetings but in future years I can become an officers and lead the ISU AGC club to success. That will someday help me land a job in the terrible economy market of today. Along with the experience to help me already know how to do that said job well, and get move up the chain faster.